The Work/Life Balance Doesn’t Exist: Meet Lisa

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A woman doing yoga to find balance.Owning my own wellness center has always been a lifelong dream. I grew up as a dancer in Michigan and college in Arizona. After moving to NYC for graduate school, I settled in Brooklyn, ran a dance program at a performing arts high school in NYC, and taught pilates on the side.

We have our “aha” moments when life is about to change. Pregnancy definitely qualifies, and — having just read “30 Things To Do When You Turn 30” shortly after finding out I was pregnant with my oldest son (now age 13), that “aha” moment was that life was moving too fast. There was no time to waste in creating the life I wanted.

A few months later, my son was born via an emergency c-section, and I experienced all the feelings that go with a traumatic birth. At eight weeks postpartum, I returned to work, still thinking about my dream of my wellness center and the book I had read.

Within a few days, I put in my notice that I wouldn’t be returning, went home, moved all my furniture out of my living room, and decided to transform it into a Pilates studio. The first year of my son’s life was the start of my business, Brooklyn Embodied, which I ran while he napped and slept at night.

The business grew steadily, and I began to specialize in working mainly with moms, receiving additional certifications in prenatal and postnatal pilates. At the same time, I was trying to reconcile my own experience and the fact that my vision of squatting, pulling out my baby, and holding him up to music from Lion King might not be the most realistic vision.

The more I worked with moms, the more I wanted to empower and educate them. This led my path to becoming a birth doula, enabling me to work with women through their journey to motherhood.

After becoming a doula, I was able to have an absolute dream VBAC birth for my daughter. One year into living in Brooklyn with a colicky baby and trying to apply to 14 kindergartens for my son, I was sent over the edge, and we decided to move to Croton-on-Hudson in 2016.

We love living in Westchester County in a small town where every time we walk out of the house, we run into people we know in such a beautiful setting. I promise myself to take advantage of the hiking, yet I seldom do. That doesn’t stop me from buying new hiking boots every year.

Over the past decade, my business has grown into a company specializing in diastasis recti repair. There is nothing I love more than working and helping other women heal their bodies and decrease their pain.

I have yet to figure out the work/life balance thing. If I’m doing awesome at work, you’ll most likely find me feeding my kids cubes of cheese and apple slices for dinner. And if I’m rocking motherhood, something else is not getting my full attention. Balance just doesn’t exist. 

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Lisa is a Brooklyn transplant residing in Croton on Hudson with her husband and two kids. She is the founder and owner of Brooklyn Embodied Pilates, a virtual Pilates studio with an in-person outpost in Croton on Hudson. Lisa and her teaching staff specialize in prenatal and postnatal pilates, diastasis recti repair, and c-section recovery. After the birth of her first son, she became a birth doula as she wanted to fully support birthing people throughout their pregnancy journey. She loves empowering women by educating them about anything and everything relating to motherhood. You can find her on IG at @brooklynembodied, trying to figure out how to make a reel. She loves anything spa or self-care related, hiking, coffee, and is new to writing but very excited to join Westchester County Mom!

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