10 Years Ago We Made a Choice That Changed Our Lives Forever

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Ten years ago, my husband and I were childless newlyweds, living the working professional life in NYC. Our lives were pretty average. We had a dog, two cats, jobs, and friends, and we hoped to start a family.

And then, one day, our lives changed forever. We didn’t know it then, of course. It was just another average day when a little face came across one of our Facebook feeds. I don’t even remember whose it was, but I suspect it was my husband’s. He had a habit of picking up strays.

So, it seems logical that he saw a little beagle needing a place to crash overnight and a ride the next day to a shelter. We agreed we’d help. We both had a passion for animal rescue, and I had previously worked at an animal shelter as a teen.

That little guy didn’t end up staying in the shelter. He was so fragile and sweet we couldn’t leave him. We did the only thing we could at that moment besides adopting him…we offered to foster him.

We named him Dill (my husband was a chef, and dill was his favorite seasoning…we also had a dog named Basil and a cat named Sage). Dill was with us for three months, growing on our hearts and the hearts of those around us.

He attended meetings in support of a new dog run. He went to neighborhood events. Everyone who met him loved him, but as an old guy of the beagle persuasion (beagles are notoriously loud), finding him a home was hard. But eventually, we did. He went home to his forever family. They were perfect. But a few days later, he was gone.

Dill rapidly deteriorated in his new home. It turns out he had an aggressive cancer that multiple vets either missed or that came out of nowhere. We suspect that finding his family let him know it was okay to let go finally. The smile on his face his first night with his parents said everything. He was home. He was safe. He knew he was loved. He knew he had a family. His work here on earth was done.

Dill in his forever home. That smile says it all!
But his legacy wasn’t complete with his passing. Living in our hearts, his forever family went on to foster, adopt, and work to help rescue other dogs. And we fostered. Again. And again. And again.
And then we had kids.
It had been about seven years since we last fostered, though we’d continued working in rescue until we moved to Westchester when my son was an infant (in fact, he started his rescue career at three days old when we stopped by our rescue’s transport on the way home from the hospital). The biggest exception was fostering our cat Pie, who we later adopted. That was last year.

A few weeks ago, that all changed. Another little beagle face had come across our feeds, and we applied to foster him. He didn’t wind up with us. Instead, we got two adorable kittens. And we were hooked all over again.

If you have ever considered fostering animals…do it. Is it hard to say goodbye? Sure. Especially the first one. But the reward is the lives you save, the hearts you touch, the families you complete, and the friends you make (shout out to all of our rescue friends).
Ten years ago, we chose to bring a little beagle into our home. He isn’t here in the physical form anymore, but he lives on through the hundreds of dogs and cats who have been saved
In loving memory of Dill. We miss you, Cookie Monster.
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Erin
Erin is the mother of one sweet, rambunctious toddler and wife to a talented chef. Professionally, she is a former special educator and preschool teacher, and is currently a cognitive neuroscience researcher and Ph.D candidate in Cognitive Science in Education with specializations in neuroscience, cognitive development, and neurodiversity/autism. She holds masters degrees in cognitive science, and neuroscience in education, from Teachers College, Columbia University, and undergraduate degrees in special education (with an additional concentration in elementary education and a minor in English) and early childhood education. As the wife of a chef, food is a huge part of her family culture, and she enjoy both cooking and baking. Some of her other hobbies include hiking, traveling, jogging, meditation, animal rescue, playing piano and guitar, crafting, reading, and of course, writing. You can follow her parenting journey and pick up tips on great kids activities here on Westchester Moms Blog, as well as her website (www.themindfullyscientificmama.com), Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest accounts.

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