Organized Chaos: Why I’m a Type A/B Mom

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A Type A/B mom with her children on a lacrosse field. Type A moms always have a neatly labeled snack bag, a color-coded planner, and a first-aid kit on hand at all times. And then there are the Type B moms who roll up to soccer practice five minutes late in yesterday’s leggings, happily handing their kid a handful of loose goldfish they found in the car cup holder.

And then there’s me—squarely straddling the organized chaos of Type A/B motherhood.

I can’t find my car keys on any given day, but I will get my children to practice on time. I am never the mom with extra Band-Aids or a granola bar in my bag, but I will be the one to volunteer for whatever needs to be done at school. Somehow, I do get things done. I may get distracted mid-task (oh look, an email I forgot to respond to!), but I run two successful businesses, teach a full classroom of students, and still manage to get my kids everywhere they need to be.

Let’s be honest, being a Type A/B mom is both a gift and a struggle. Some may call it a contradiction—I call it balance.

I’m deeply committed to my kids’ schedules, yet my own personal life is a walking question mark. Need me at a school event? I’ll be there ten minutes early. Need me to RSVP to a birthday party? Well…you should probably text me three times and maybe send a carrier pigeon for good measure.

My kids? They always have what they need, even if I have to pull off a last-minute miracle. Me? I forget to drink water half the time, and I have been meaning to return an Amazon package for weeks.

And let’s talk about school mornings. My Type A side sets the alarm early, lays out the clothes the night before, and makes sure the lunches are ready. My Type B side completely forgets about Spirit Day and scrambles to sign last-minute permission slips.

Then there’s meal planning. I dream of channeling my inner Pinterest mom and mapping out a whole week of meals like a pro. But let’s be real—my husband is the one who actually feeds us all, while my culinary skills peak at ordering takeout. However, I always handle the dishes and cleaning and have the fastest laundry turnaround time, so it all evens out!

So, to all my fellow Type A/B moms out there, I see you. Keep thriving in your slightly chaotic yet shockingly organized way. We may never be the ones with the backup snacks, but hey, at least we always show up (even if we have to borrow a pen to sign the permission slip we forgot about).

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Michelle
Michelle is the Owner and Editor of Fairfield County Mom and Westchester County Mom, two thriving parenting communities she proudly leads with passion and purpose. A lifelong Fairfield County native, Michelle grew up in Norwalk and now calls Fairfield, CT home. She married her husband, Chris, in October 2008, and together they’re raising a lively crew: their son Shane (born March 2011), twins Blake and Brynn (born June 2013), plus two lovable pups—Hank the loyal Lab and Bruce the mischievous Frenchie. By day, Michelle is a dedicated third-grade teacher at a local public school, juggling lesson plans and lunchboxes like a pro. Her days are filled with carpools, laundry piles, sideline cheering, and the beautiful chaos of motherhood. When she carves out a rare moment for herself, you’ll find her curled up with a great book, savoring dark chocolate, or unwinding with an espresso martini.