These past few months, I’ve been reflecting on the idea of a “sisterhood in motherhood.” I have had quite a few experiences lately where, during casual conversations at the park or on a sports field, I’ve walked away with the knowledge to help a situation I’m facing or giving advice to a fellow mom who was dealing with something I had (or at least I knew of someone who did).
This has led me to believe that, at times, fellow moms can be a better resource than Google. Think of it as advice with actual real-life expert experience.
It never ceases to amaze me how much moms know. I’m not just talking about “Where are my shoes?!” or “What time is practice?” type stuff (even though we ALWAYS know). I’m talking more about moms being walking encyclopedias of knowledge and how we can be a lifeline for one another.
Need a good stain remover? Ask a mom. Got a kid who will only eat three things? Ask a mom. Are you worried about your kid’s meltdowns? (They may have no significance, but you need to be sure.) Ask a mom.
It’s beyond the practical stuff, too. Moms can be great therapists, offer career advice, and, at times, almost feel like motivational speakers. One minute, we can be talking about how your baby isn’t sleeping through the night, and the next, it can be about how their child struggled with anxiety and how they dealt with it.
What I’ve come to love about this “society of moms” is that I will always walk away feeling less alone. And on days when being a mom can feel like living on a deserted island, that’s a pretty good feeling.
So, let’s be honest: every mom is a goldmine of wisdom. The best part? We’re all eager to share because we know what it’s like to need a quick answer, a second opinion, or someone who understands.
